Wednesday, October 29, 2008

Making Friends Lives Someone's Life

Making Friends Lives Someone's Life

Making friends is commonly approved to be a part of social being concerns. Friends are those who always go with us through sorrow and happiness. They play important role after the existence of our family. Having friends constitute an expression of natural preference of being in society. Unless somebody will be regarded as 'self-isolated' due to not having any friends.

An intriguing question to answer is that does making friends correlate positively to live someone's life? Referring to different points of views, the answers might appear in a different ideas and opinions. Somehow when the answer is based on the common sense of understanding that human being is a homo-sociologcus there would be some similar perspectives to interpret. In this regard, making friends contribute much to the individual endeavors to live one's life.


When making friends everybody has to own certain confidence of being a part of others. To get started in making relationship somewhat needs personal belief that getting to know each other contributes to something new in life. Being known by others constitutes the basic form of others' legitimacy over one's existence. Although the level of acceptance is somewhat personal, personal worry of feeling 'lonely' will be released by itself due to positive suggestion in mind.

In addition, to know others becomes valuable knowledge by which each individual express the right way to interact one another. Social adaption will never take place without knowledge on the existence of other beings. Due to knowing others constitute the basic seed of understanding others, it will create in time personal ability to do self-adjustment and even possess the so-called Emotional Quotient (EQ). Misunderstanding by then could be avoided from inter-personal relations up to broader level of interaction in the society.

Given the condition of being known and knowing each other, every body can live normally as a part of others. Personal life that is usually get managed by one's self can even be helped and enriched by the inspiration and contribution of others. What sort of word but to say making friends lives someone's life if we find such reality?

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